In this episode, I’m joined by Aviva Marchione, a Reconstructionist rabbi in Philadelphia who brings both depth and playfulness to the spiritual questions we’re often too afraid to ask out loud.
We talk about her journey into a movement that leans into change, what it means to carry tradition without being bound by it, and how grief can shape the way we experience God. Along the way, we explore metaphors of the divine—from time and thread to doors and love blobs—and reflect on what happens when a rabbi doesn’t have all the answers, and doesn’t pretend to.
Episode Breakdown
⏳ 4:00 — A Brief History of Reconstructionist Judaism
Aviva explains the origins of the movement and its core philosophy of evolving tradition.
⏳ 11:04 — Becoming a Rabbi
How Aviva came to the rabbinate through curiosity, community, and a reimagined vision of who gets to lead.
⏳ 21:02 — God as Interconnectedness and the “Love Blob”
We explore metaphors of God as the thread of life, and Nicole shares her sister’s image of their father returning to the “love blob.”
⏳ 25:45 — God as Time
A conversation on how big moments—like grief—bend our sense of time, and how ritual helps us mark those sacred disruptions.
⏳ 29:29 — What’s Not Working Right Now?
Aviva reflects on her current distance from a personal God, and the door she’s not quite ready to open.
⏳ 37:00 — Jewish Metaphors for God
Aviva shares Judaism’s rich and varied language for the Divine.
⏳ 41:00 — A Rabbi, But Not “Religious”
Aviva unpacks how she identifies deeply with Jewish life while not fitting the mold of what some expect a rabbi to be.
⏳ 44:41 — What Does Sacred Uncertainty Mean to You?
A beautiful closing reflection on not knowing, and how that, too, can be sacred.
References
Denominations of Judaism: Judaism has had several denominations or movements, each with different practices and interpretations of Jewish laws and teachings. The major ones include:
Orthodox Judaism: The most traditional branch, which maintains strict adherence to the Torah and Jewish law (Halakha).
Conservative Judaism: Seeks to balance tradition with modernity, maintaining many aspects of Jewish law while adapting to contemporary life.
Reform Judaism: Emphasizes individual autonomy and reinterpretation of Jewish tradition in light of modern knowledge and values.
Reconstructionist Judaism: Focuses on Judaism as an evolving religious civilization, adapting Jewish tradition to contemporary life.
Humanistic Judaism: A non-theistic movement that focuses on Jewish culture and heritage, with an emphasis on human values.
Torah: The Torah is the central and most important religious text in Judaism, considered the written law or teachings of God. It consists of the first five books of the Hebrew Bible (Genesis, Exodus, Leviticus, Numbers, and Deuteronomy) and is often referred to as the "Five Books of Moses."
Halakha: Halakha is the collective body of Jewish law, derived from the Torah, the Talmud (a Jewish text of rabbinic teachings), and other rabbinic writings. It covers all aspects of Jewish life, including rituals, ethics, and behavior, and serves as a guide for how Jews should live according to God's commandments.
Sh'ma Prayer (Shema): The Shema is a central prayer in Judaism, recited daily by observant Jews. It is a declaration of the oneness of God and an affirmation of Jewish faith. The prayer begins with the words, "Hear, O Israel: the Lord our God, the Lord is one." The Shema is often recited in the morning and evening prayers, and it emphasizes the importance of loving God with all one's heart, soul, and strength.
Shekhinah: The Shekhinah refers to the feminine aspect of God's presence in the world. It is often described as the divine presence that dwells among people, especially in times of holiness or in the presence of the community. The Shekhinah is not a separate deity but an expression of God's immanence, seen as nurturing and comforting.
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